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November 18 Pol-er Expression IITis true! A growing number of "spiritual" persons have expressed sincere thanks, appreciation and deep gratitude for this time and space. Now, with close to seven-hundred hits to these blogs, endless calls, emails and notes - the thanks, appreciation and deep gratitude is mutually expressed. Walking the tactfully - honest - sexually disclosing - tightrope in the middle of a circus filled with clergy and congregants gets easier as honesty trampolines back and forth. Get ready for the "whole truth, nothing but the truth...so help us God as "Real Sex in the Sanctuary" hits all the right spots..... I have written a thousand introductions to the book. Each of them are just as good as the other. Truth is, only one wins. Not unless of course a revised version is released quarterly with just a new introduction! lol The blogs/ book's mission and purpose, just for reiteration, is far greater than performing the perfect back-hook or hoover spin. It has little to do with successfully sashaying in 6" or 7" heels (although they are dazzling and sexy). It is intended to do what it has been doing. Here's what you have said: It is hope for those who have not yet experienced the marriage bed and strength for those who are in it; Inspiration to women (men too) of the hectic Thirtysomething sect; FREE-ING those that were held by myth, taboo and the like; connect to "real" people AND then to bring it back to the glory of God; blog is fruitful for us in this courting stage and opening doors for us to engage in topics we thought were very touchy. Real Sex in the Sanctuary uncovers the recovery of healthy, uninhibited, open for discussion, expression of sensuality and sexuality between spiritual couples. It complies with the freedom God intended for us to enjoy. You can do it, Real Sex in the Sanctuary as the practical strength supporting Phillipians 4:13 (I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength), is on the way to help. Sitting on the sidelines does not compare to playing the game! Any passionate player can attest to this reality. Having the desire and growing "grand-slam, touch-down and three-pointer skills" void of freedom to play is a nightmare! As I sat on the sidelines of tonight's class, supporting yet another "spiritual" friend in her first-time endeavor (she already had shoes...hmmmm?), I could feel my body responding to each move. Antsy to embark upon my new class tomorrow (Pole 101....no more introductory classes for me!!), I sat rooting the ladies on while longing to jump in and do something! By the way and once again, I witnessed the beautiful flowering of women who embraced a moment in time to inform, stretch and magnify the Glory of God through her sexuality. Safe, tasteful and sensual chimed through/for each "Belle." I remain chief among them! Look out Pole 101! Here comes "Lady Liberty." Right now at 2:02 a.m look out Sweety....or not...I'm sleepy...(let's be real on this course) In Joy and Love for your journey!! p.s. We all know this book is for "us" so is there a chapter topic you want to see "uncovered?" Don't be shy...say the word and live...again!! November 11 The Pol-er Express-ionGod made Adam (man). Adam was given a job (ruler/caretaker). After Adam heard and owned His purpose (obey the voice of God), God said, "Now that "made in My image," "obedient to My voice" "working-Man" should not be alone. When a Proverbs 31 woman is married to this Adam type, "no good thing will she withhold from him....pole and all." Naturally, when the aforementioned "original" Adam easily recognizes the glory of his Proverbs 31:10-30 "Eve" "sashaying through the garden" he will talk, cook, talk, clean, talk, shop, talk, listen, talk, turn off the game, confide, cleave and "swing from a pole" too! Take now for instance. At 11:15 p.m. after: homeschooling, handling a wealth of business details from west to east coast, cooking, cleaning, playing tag (being caught by 4 yr. olds), Pastoring, class and the list continues....I sit...fresh as summer..alone...waiting for Adam's return (from as many details)...glossed lips..minty breath, black-seven-inch heels (ah-ha..they arrived tonight) and "THE BLACK DRESS." Between 11:15 p.m. and 11:25 p.m. my original" Adam returned home and n-o-t-i-c-e-d (family, home, congregation and business all taken care of) along with an "Eve" who is looking and smelling like God is able!") Oh yeah...smooth feet and glittered toe-nails are standard assets! (If you watch greater than G-rated movies where cursing and immorality are standard, surely moral transparency spoken from "a Godly-married Woman" should be easy to receive and digest. (smile) Our sold-out mandate and unified focus to tease and please one another emotionally and physically (to say the least) advances creativity and expression on each of these two levels and beyond. Insomuch, Sex is NOT the end all "statement" to the Pol-er Express-ion. "Sex" will not happen tonight...even though in most minds the stage is set. Truth be told...intercourse was in my mind too but nature ruled! Don't you just love her..she makes you think around the pole! By the way, another good friend (from the Sanctuary/church), attended class tonight. It's almost as if the "spiritual" woman's body-soul and spirit says, "Finally, it's my time. I've found a safe place to be the me I know He deserves and the one I want to let out." The ease and rapid rate at which "we" unfold is "faster than a speeding bullet and more powerful than a locomotive." The transformation is amazing! She and the six other pol-ers expressed feelings of sensuality, flirtatiousness, confidence and energy. Your's truly.....felt,looked and danced hot!! I decreased the size of the word hot for those who are already on edge over the fact that "Pastor" is Poling. Well if "Daddy" aint happy aint nobody happy. Trust me..Daddy is happy! LOL! So with fresh, new, "do try these at home" non- pole-moves from tonight's class, I am ready for the sensual enjoyment delivered from heaven through a wife surrendered to Spirit-led, undefiled, romantic/erotic fulfillment. I am set to unleash the power of God to confidently sashay through the garden (without falling in these 7" heels) and find Adam "naked and not ashamed." I am going to complete your manual (book: "Real Sex in the Sanctuary" : scandals, fornication and adultery.. NOT.) with your freedom, passion, empowerment, inhibitions, safety, questions, future, entitlement to truth and joy- serving as the catalyst. ________________________________ During our time of book writing, publishing and the like, we are available for your questions/comments at unelaterra_1@msn.com May His Peace, wisdom, freedom and joy be with you....'til we meet again. p.s....I just found Adam...in Genesis form (naked and not ashamed). He found me too...in like manner! Blessed be the God of Abraham, Jacob and LaTerra!! Love to you!
November 04 Beyond the Pole"S/he that the Son has set free...is free indeed! So let us walk, run and "pole" in the freedom where we have been set free." Or maybe you want to start with this line:
"It's been a long time..I shouldn't have left you without a mid-week blog to step to." Either way..we all end up at the same place. Enjoy the journey. Lean into the stretch of paradigms, misconceptions and possibility. Believe me, this "hurts" me more than it does you. With at least 400 and counting hits to these blogs (within the last two weeks), readers get to keep their anonymity. I don't. Both praise and persecution are real parts of staying up late, think-tanking with known readers, designing the book-cover, researching, praying before blogging and "enduring the cross for the joy set before us all." The manifold calls, emails and testimonials from you, my spiritual sistahs and brothahs, speak to the joy of your rekindled/renewed creativity, your desire/curiosity and passion for remodeling the sanctuary (Sweety's words). I must add the depth of my joy went to tilt, when I walked into my "sanctuary" after class last Tuesday and found a very type A, normally reserved naked man standing on the tub's edge. He did a lttle dance while saying, "Hey Sweetie, I've been taking some classes too!" Right then and there, I had the final confirmation on completing the book!
My joy continued to overflow when a Pastor/husband accepted the challenge to finally trade in one of his "tighty-whities" for colorful..more attractive under-gear. His VERY conservative wife called that same day (without knowing he called earlier) to get ideas on being a better, stronger, more consistant initiator as she journeys her way to the pole or not..in the future. Her husband called two days later with thunderous accolades and thanks. He confirmed the old adage: "Men want a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets!" Or as one of our readers said, "Men want a good Christian woman on the outside" but a "WILD" (for lack of a better word) one in the bedroom." (Pastor or not...you've thought it - for a long time...I just voiced it. Yes!!)
En route to, On and Beyond the Pole surfaces the true joy and expression of corporate satisfaction. Mutual submission screams from Ephesians 5:21. It is done out of honor and reverence to God. Oh Lord! All of a sudden, I smell the scent of Dolce and Gabanna's men's cologne laced with Lever soap. Somebody is trying to tell me something and I hear him loud and clear (it's 1:55 am). In compliance to Ephesians 5:21, I am submitting to the cues and have informed "the real pole" that I will be finished blogging in 15 minutes. I heard..."Okay." It must be REALLY working in my own life before I can pass it on to others.
Class tonight was incredible!! All of the ladies were repeat polers save one...my quite conservative Pastor-friend visiting from out-of-state. She decided to view the class. I opted out of my dance lesson tonight as to ensure her comfort. When one pole was free, our awesome teacher invited me to fill it. With long crocheted skirt and knit shirt I joined the flare of "liberty bells as freedom rang again and again." Before anyone knew it, my dear Pastor-friend timidly accepted the same invitation and boldly slipped on a pair of 7" heels! Once close to the pole, Elvis and Shy Girl left the building. My hands could not type a text to her husband fast enough (this is not a place for a crack on my antequated phone..just keep reading). She stayed up for two rounds and shocked us all...myself included! The text read, "she needs a pole at home! She went from watching to wearing the 7" heals to twirling very well on the pole....you can thank me later!" His reply read, "LOL, I'm in shock but ready to celebrate." (they've been married for 20 yrs.) She returns home Thursday and will probably get a speeding ticket somewhere along the 7 hr. drive!
Remember my born-again, very spiritual friend who was a first time poler last week?! She bought a pole! Erected it tonight in her "home sanctuary" and rendered a 3 min 21 sec improv for her husband. After only two classes (tonight included), the text read, ".....he was VERY surprised and impressed. His eyes on me, slow and seductive...WOW!!!!!!!!!!"
Our teacher asked for the site for the blog as did some of the students tonight. The teacher then added, "I want to come to your church one day, LaTerra." I responded, "Until you do..I'll keep coming to yours and bringing more members to this "sanctuary."
See You at the Top as we live..Beyond the Pole! Pass it on!
(It's 2:07 am and the Dolce & Gabanna is calling my name..so is "the real pole!" Glory to God for an undefiled marital bed!)
October 28 Pole PowerWelcome back my spiritual sisters and brothers too. By the way brothers, you know who you are, no need to be shy and timid by calling me with your feedback. I honor your voice and know for sure that MANY need to benefit from your decision to "speak the truth in love!" So thanks for leaving your written feedback too.
Need I say the class tripled in size from last week! My dear friend and her friend joined me too (names are omitted to protect the guilty). 21 multi-cultural women endeavored to leave age, size, inhibitions and faulty theology at the door. They showed up awaiting to herald the mantra, "free at last, free at last..thank God Almighty we are free at last." With bouncing and behaving hair (Sweety picked the cut..I love it), black seven inched heels and a personal mandate bigger than my own life, yours truly led the pack!
As promised, I first took the trip within and searched my own inhibitions, their presence and more poignant, their embedded roots. I traveled deep inside and met up with the likes of "don't, shouldn't and better not" as regular commands. Like the ghost of Christmas past, Scriptural excerpts like, "stay away from anything that causes sexual arousal (lasciviousness)" and "flee fornication," silhouetted my memory. With stacked bricks forming my outer shell and hormones equally as strong, the ghosts of Christmas present and future not only never appeared, but there were equally no accompanying scriptures to inform, unharness, direct and affirm now and then options for sexual arousal, pleasure and fulfillment.
Moreover, who really schools you on consummating spirituality and sexuality? Religious radio, tv nor catechisms offer education, license or certification in sexual freedom. O.K...so the the marriage bed is undefiled....FROM WHAT? Are spiritual women and men reading, writing or sharing "tricks of the trade" for the benefit of us all? What are the "older women REALLY supposed to be teaching the younger women? Where, what and from whom on earth are the spritual men learning?We release and offer little yet shun or discount viable creativity. WORDLINESS as a feared label is exchanged for bondage. There is a whole lot of freedom at the top of a pair of seven-inched heels...waiting 4 "Him and Her!"
The first man and women were commissioned to "be fruitful and multiply." We'd be remiss to believe the full essence here was to just reproduce themselves. Surely, we caught "fruitful" as a term pregnant with purpose and passion. Somehow the "power of the pole" as my teacher said tonight, adds/offers a little something-something...say purpose and passion, to each one differently. It divinely keeps aflame the interest in "the other pole" too.
twist (confidence), shake (security), drop (sexiness), grab (power), slide (excitement), step (hope), glide (creativity) , drag (seduction), spin (you decide!)
Although the expressed inhibitions shared from the women tonight ranged from "concern for what others might think" to fear of falling, their take home feelings revealed, invigoration, empowerment, initiative, safety, freedom and were far more weighted than their reservations. Most were beginners. One was four months pregnant and many returned from last week. All were good and free...myself included.
So..it's official. I signed up tonight to begin Pole-Dance 101. There you have it. I said it proud and now I'll say it loud, "I signed up tonight to begin Pole-Dance 101! In reality, signing up is one of the many practical steps in affirming my vows to God, self, Sweety and to the droves of bound and misaligned spiritual brothers and sisters in either the pre-marital, marital or pre-divorce juncture. I now own a pair of seven inched heels (they should arrive for class next Tuesday). Using dormant now awakened creativity, the pole and I are becoming fast friends. So come on spiritual brothers and sisters, let's recover the purity in sensual seduction and sexuality. Let's lead the way in Divinely empowered eroticism by undefiling methods and creativity intended for OUR pleasure too!!!
Power to the Pole and to you!!
By the way, my arms feel pretty good this week. Yeah!!!
See you at the Top! (thanks Teresa) October 21 Poles away......You have long awaited for someone to uninhibitedly detail their sensual journey for open display. Someone with taste, excitement, flare and adventure. Having a strong faith base provides some level of safety....or does it? Is safety what we really want, need or truly desire? The unfortunate myth that somehow "spirituality and sexual freedom" are, to say the least, distant cousins removed, nutures the undercurrent that fuels the progressive journey from dissatisfaction-curiosity-affair-"the Big D." When in fact spirituality and sexual freedom are conjoined where it really counts.
To all of you "spiritual sisters" who have accepted the call to the "missionary field," you might want to keep this blog trail on your favorite's list with pen and pad in hand. A recent survey (my own) revealed that "spiritual brothers" envy "non-spiritual brothers" because they (non-spiritual brothers) get the goods. I had to ask what are "the goods." Needless to say the response catapulted me forward, instantly. In about one week, I landed...on a 15 ft. silver pole. The seven inch heels were comfortable and not as threatening as I thought. Nine, Twelve, Three and Six o'clock have new meanings for sure. Right now my upper body is hurtN..that's right hurtN! Lifting these real pounds without Michelle Obama arms (right now) is real work! The three free introductory classes are a great segue and prelude for Pole Dancing 101. With fitted cotton pants and t-shirts, I look to ride this all the way. Like it or love it!! By the way...the pole was just ONE part of the goods....
Before next week's class and blog, I am going to research the root of my own inhibitions. Why are we "spiritual sisters" so...so..tight lipped, misinformed and taboo-minded anyhoot? If anyone should have a claim to fame in the area of sexual freedom, shouldn't it be those who profess "doing all things through Him who gives us strength?"
After taking my turn to share my profession and reason for taking the class, all mouths dropped! My teacher admitted not having a Pastor in her class before. Might I add that three women asked for more information about my church! . They were living proof that people want real encounters with real people who allow a real God to enhance, maximize, develop and mature the marriage between their spirituality and sexual freedom to heights unknown.
Feelings: intrigue, curiousity, sensuality, confidence, excitement, nervous, pain (arms/legs/neck/chest), comfortable and determination, security and EMPOWERMENT
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